"Can't take it with you" - have your thought about you will?

The BBC programme “Can’t take it with you”, aired on Friday night, reiterated the thinking that about 70% of us will die without leaving a valid will. The programme centred around two couples, who were in second relationships, struggling to resolve the thorny issue of what should happen to their estates on their deaths.

The resulting wills would not have tested a competent solicitor specialising in the area. However, the most interesting issue arising was the question of “how do you reach a stage at which a solution between the parties can be agreed upon?”. The answer to that is COMMUNICATION!. Communication with your partner and communication with the family. It is so often the case that people are not prepared to discuss what is, after all, eventually going to happen to us all, death. Many examples could be listed where families have not spoken prior to someone’s death and the result is an acrimonious mess.

There are six episodes in this series and the three lessons to be taken from the first episode are:-

Communication; and,

Obtain specialist advice from a solicitor practising in the area of wills, it is too important not to get the will right. A badly drawn will might even be worse than having no will at all!; and

Don’t put off making a will because it is too difficult to think about.

Making a will can be difficult emotionally and, in extreme cases, can test relationships. However, not resolving the issues and leaving it can be more hurtful to those left to pick up the pieces. Wills are essential documents to have in place particularly in the most difficult situations. If you are finding that you are putting off making a will because it is difficult for you to consider then you probably need one in place more than others!

Find out more about the author of this article, Shaun Parry-Jones

find out more about the BBC series "Can't take it with you"